Down on the corner, out in the street

Willy and the Poorboys are playin;

Bring a nickel; tap your feet.

Beaker has been on the corner for over thirty years. In the old days, he’d be the one dancing. These days, he can only tap his feet. To music he plays from his portable boom-box. “His” is a generous pronoun. Beaker swiped the boom-box a few weeks back. “I feel bad I took it,” Beaker says with a grin.

Beaker's boom-box.

Beaker’s grin could make even the most hardened passerby smile. It’s so pure, so innocent, it so thoroughly masks the many layers of loss.

Beaker’s best friend, Greg, unexpectedly passed several weeks ago. From an overdose. Greg’s long-term partner had died from an overdose, several months prior. Beaker understands all too well what it feels like to lose a long-term partner. Because his girlfriend jumped in front of a train, many years back. He hasn’t been in a serious relationship since.

And it’s not just people Beaker has lost. But physical capacity too. He loved to run. “I would just run and run and run.” But then he was hit by a Toronto street car. Twice. A car ran him over. Once. And now his kidneys have given way. Beaker needs dialysis three times a week. Although he often only goes once or twice a week. “I just forget sometimes when I’m with my friends,” Beaker notes.

Beaker has been on the drink for years, and years, and years. “I’m a chronic alcoholic,” Beaker straightforwardly acknowledges. "I like wine. I drink listerine, sometimes. OK, a lot of the time.” Beaker has been known to drink up to two bottles of listerene a day. Before all the wine and the listerine, there was gasoline. Out on the reserve. Where there was nothing to do. “I've been sniffing gasoline since I was nine years old. It gives you a very bad high. I guess the only period I didn't drink was in jail, but then there was moonshine too.”

A bottle of listerine goes for $4.99 at Shoppers Drug Market.


I have become comfortably numb

When I was a child

I caught a fleeting glimpse

Out of the corner of my eye.

I turned to look but it was gone

I cannot put my finger on it now

The child is grown,

The dream is gone

Beaker still sees himself as the bratty child whom his mother unconditionally loved. “She wouldn’t have judged me and where I am today,” Beaker says.

Where Beaker is today is not necessarily where he wants to be. He goes back and forth. Between wanting to return home. To the reserve. And believing it’s impossible. “My life is a circle,” Beaker comments, as he looks at our Life Patterns cards. “I stay right in the middle. In a circle, there is no place to hide. There is never a break in the circle. My head is a circle."

"In a circle, there is no place to hide. There is never a break in the circle. My head is a circle."

There was a break in the circle for his younger brother. As kids, they would drink Lysol together. Then, his brother met a beautiful woman, had some kids, found a job, has a home. "I’m proud of him. But he is not me. I also went to college, but it didn’t do me no good,” Beaker admits.

Beaker thinks a lot about what home means. He has a subsidized apartment in the city, but sees it more as a four walls with a roof, and less a place of connection. He owns 10 acres of land on the reserve. There, he could build a log cabin. With lots of bird houses. Beaker loves song birds. Though he’s ashamed he can’t sing the same songs as his Elders. “I don’t speak in my own tongue, I feel ashamed about that.”

The Thursday morning Spirit Circle at the Drop-in Centre. With the elders. Beaker didn't make it.

Indeed for all the ruminating about home, there’s little action. Beaker has arranged to go home before. His sister was all ready to pick him-up and take him away from the Drop-in centre corner. But for some reason, he couldn’t do it. Maybe deep down he knew that the reality of home wasn’t as romantic as the memory of home. Bird songs don’t have the same lure as rock & roll. “I keep going back to the Drop-in centre for my friends and their alcohol,” Beaker acknowledges. He hasn’t found a way to reconcile the two places, the two identities.

“I get so depressed sometimes. I want to hang myself, “Beaker tells me. “It can hit me like a ton of bricks. I can't breathe. Then I think about my mom, and how much she loved me.”

Wild Horses

Childhood living is easy to do

The things you wanted I bought them for you

Graceless lady you know who I am

You know I can't let you slide through my hands

Wild horses couldn't drag me away

Beaker likens himself to a wild horse. Untamable. Even when hooked up to the dialysis machines. He has outlived his doctor’s expectations. By about two years. There’s something about his spirit that just cannot be contained by institutions, by professionals, even by his family. “My sisters and brothers think I’m the same old Beak, you can’t change me.” Without skipping a beat, Beaker tells me, “And when you pay me for this interview, I’m going to go get drunk. 4 Jack Daniels for $20.”

Beaker showing off his injuries and discussing his run-ins with medical care

My Take-Aways

Beaker's versions of good living

Being one with the land. "I miss home, the most. I haven't been home in a long while. Sometimes I think I’d like to hang-up my guns and go home. I've got some land given to me, and to build a log cabin. I would have plenty to do - to trim the trees, to clean everything."

Enjoying people and music. "I love good company and I love music: Rolling Stones, Pink Floyd, Beatles. Just being with them.”

Seeing the world. "I would have loved to experience life outside of North America. Go hop around with the kangaroos in Australia. I like adventure.”

Beaker's self-identified resources

Patty. “That’s my housing worker. I am going to tell her how much I can’t stand living in my apartment, with my neighbors, and the rules. At my apartment, they deliver us food like we’re the elderly. If she can help me out, I’ll give her a hug.”

Leslie. “She keeps the Drop-in Centre going. It’s a beautiful place. The place where our friends go.”

The bible. "I got me a bible at home. It makes me feel good to read it."

Music. "It can be fucking beautiful, and true."

Beaker's tensions

Self-perception and others' perceptions. "I’m a tree with many branches and I have to make choices. Not sure what I will choose. People expect me not to change.”

Social health versus emotional health. “I come to the meeting place for the friendship and for the alcohol. I come to drink with my friends. I'm not really into the drug scene, but if somebody offers it to me, yes, I'll do it. I don't look for it. I missed dialysis last week."

Culture versus capacity. "I'm ashamed that I cannot communicate with my Elders after all of these years."

House versus home. "I have a house. But I can't stand where I live now. I can't stand my neighbors.”